the reason i can easily say 'i don't need this' is because i know i don't. i want to be happy and i only want people around me that make that possible. you said you didn't know how i can say 'i just don't need this' and mean it, and to move on. but i guess it's because i've been where you are. i've had to chose between someone that 'causes nothing but pain even though they've been your best friend for ages or finding something new and better. no one's telling you what to do, we all understand that it is hard for you. i just want you to know that i'm here and i understand, because that's what i really wished someone had said to me.